Why is he texting less?
A drop in texting is real data, but it is ambiguous data. The useful question is not 'why' in the abstract — it is which explanations fit everything else you have observed.
Start freeExplanations that all fit the same drop
- Novelty settling into a slower, steadier rhythm
- Work, family or health pressure outside the relationship
- Interest genuinely fading
- Discomfort after a specific conversation
- Someone else taking up attention
What tells them apart
Whether he still makes plans, whether he responds warmly when you do reach out, and whether the drop is global or specific to you. That last one is the most informative and the easiest to check honestly.
What not to do
Do not run tests, do not mirror his silence to teach a lesson, and do not monitor his online activity. None of it produces the information you want.
Noticed the messages slowing down?
Describe the last few weeks and see which explanations your evidence supports.